The Lifestyle You Envy May Be a Fake Highlight Reel
Social media has expanded comparison from nearby peers to curated performances by strangers. Visible homes, cars, and happiness omit debt payments, health issues, relationship conflict, and fabrication, causing people to overestimate how well everyone else is doing.
- Online comparison draws from a global and highly selected sample
- Visible consumption does not reveal the financing behind it
- Personal problems are systematically omitted from public displays
- People compare their full lives with other people's edited highlights
“Now you compare yourself to a curated highlight reel of a bunch of strangers, fake performative lives.”
“What we see on Instagram is the car or the house, but we don't see the monthly payments.”